Are you getting enough
attention from the person you love?
This question was put
to me and I thought that it is best answered through this blog so
that others can read and apply it to themselves, if that is what they
need/want.
Some times it happens
that you put in more love and energy into a relationship than
the other person. You send more SMS's, emails, make more calls, arrange more
meetings, etc.
The other person, and
in this case let's assume that it is your partner, say "Jack", puts
in much less effort and when you demand more attention, Jack pretends as if he
does not understand what you mean, because he is giving it all that he's
got, which in your estimate is not enough.
What should you do?
1. Stop
asking/fighting for it?
2. Ask more, fight
more?
3. Pretend that all is
okay? And that you are the one who is being unreasonable in even wanting more
attention?
4. Find someone else?
From the above
options, what approach suits you the most?
The person who is not
giving you enough attention is probably pushing your buttons and you are
reacting, feeling insecure.
Your self-worth is
getting hurt and it does not feel good to be in that relationship.
Here is a question for
you. How is your relationship with your SELF?
Do you stand in front
of the mirror and praise yourself?
Do you buy yourself a
massage and other nice things?
Are you your own
Valentine?
Everyone else is a
mirror to you. How you treat yourself matters.
Do you go to the gym
and keep your promises of eating right?
Are you happy?
Try this for sometime and
you will find that your universe changes to keep up with you and show you how beautiful
and special you really are.
Love yourself
completely.
I'm not talking about
being selfish. As you love yourself more, you will have more love to give
others.
Establish the best
relationship with your SELF and watch the world change around you.
Love and light
Sugandhi Iyer
Author and Success
Coach
Have you read Joyful
Manifestation yet?
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