SEX---- AN ACT OF SPIRITUALITY !!

Sex and spirituality

Sex is some thing more than just a physical act .there is a deep spiritual aspet of sex also perhaps you know it but then you ignore it . sex is god made not man made .  it is every where in nature and all the time happenening all over the world as a process of creation of the creator . 

Why sex is a spiritual act

when two bodies engage in the act of sex their souls too unite . and if you had been only a body then sex would have been a physical act but then you are not only a body but a soul too –an immortal soul and you never cease to exist no matter what you do with your body –that is what which makes sex a spiritual act . so that is his call and  can we dictate god to set the boundaries for sex to set .

It is HE who created your body and soul has the right to set the boundaries for the sex right or wrong  and this the universal code which is not based on your individual desire  but on God’s authoratative  word .

 

What makes sexual relationship right and wrong

It has to do nothing with an individual ‘s preference but how the creator defined it when  HE created SEX. And set the limitations.

It is a truth and an established fact that when a man  goes beyond the limitations set by the CREATOR and ignores HIS command  it is his soul which suffers more than his body . and this is what is written in the scriptures all over the world by all enlightened souls . 

Sex is occuring all the time

sex is an act which is occuring among many people right now  in some or the other plane . you can see the bodies but what about the soul –where are they ? their souls are united in an invisible plane and that is also as real .

The first place where the soul goes is the institution of marriage . SEX is one of the blessing  which marriage grants you .

Marriage needs to be honored and kept pure  by all as again and again it has been stressed in all the religions that marriage is not only a bonding between two bodies but two souls and the soul and a sole part of the supreme soul needs to be honored . marriage gives you the opportunity to enjoy safe sex which does not inflit your soul with any guilt and suffering .

Marriage is the only institution where GOD has chosen to bless SEX , rest everywhere it is more of a curse  only .Here you need to respect the human body as human body is the temple of living soul and it is both your body as well as your partner’s body too .

Adultery or sexual immorality should never be encouraged anywhere in the society . as it does have very long lasting ill effects and whole society can become sick  as we are witnessing today all over the world .as it amounts to abusing your own body the temple of soul and disrespecting the other soul too –just think how you can be forgiven by GOD or HIS command .

So no excuse that just GOD made sex , so one can have it anywhere, with any body ,at any time .

Let sex just not be a pleasure as pleasure it very shot lived and quite often followed by pain and separation  instead let sex be an ever flowing - joy... fellowship....an  ecstasy.. 

 

Damage of sexual promiscuity

Though in today’s world we all know that all who have unsafe sex / sex out side marriage neither get pregnant or get AIDS  but  then very little had been said about that how this kind of negetive sex inflicts people for  their whole life . 

The major psyhological effect –if you do not not mend your ways and let yourself go just like that like having pre-marital sex  ---the aderanaline rush  in your blood stream and the thrill will again and again force you to commit this action of theft . Now (possibly for the rest of his life) one is likely to view sex in the context of "lust" and "naughtiness" and suh men will continuously force their wives to do some thing outrageous to relive that experiene  and this ind of men are not intersted in the woman who is their wife   and can never live a happy blissful marriage . they end up in spoiling their life , and both partner’s and children life . 

And in 2^nd case even if a man is happily married but moments he  does have sex outside the marriage  even he can’t live a normal life after it as he onstantly would be living with his experience and can’t trust his wife as he would be thinking about his wife –what he did ; she too an do as sex has been reduced merely to a physical act and the soul has been ignored in it . so in both the cases the scars on on the psyche and soul both . 

 On the other hand, when a man has his first sexual experience in the context of marriage, he imprints on the GIRL, for she is the sole reason for his incredible experiences. Indeed, these men tend to marry once for life. 

The urge of SEX is the strongest of all the urges but then the main aim is to scatter the seeds or leave your impints in form of progeny . in animals it is instinctive / seasonal and ntrolled by GOD/ NATURE but in human –the free will has been blessed by NATURE but then again the aim of SEX is procreation one should not foget  and needs to be with in the limits as laid by our scriptures . 

 Sex  becomes a truly spiritually transforming experience which is multidimensional in a transcendent nature, that gives a totally new comprehension  of a reality said in scriptures  where the husband knew his wife.   And vice verse  and these are the moments when both man and woman are in absolute hormony with each other a great soul enters the woman’s body whih can be yug parvartak .and this is how sex becomes more than  a meditative and truly a spiritual act  which can be a source of ever flowing joy and bliss .

By Sunita Gupta